‘Yes yes,iam out of it..not completely..but soon i will be fine..noo,iam trying..its not happening..its killing me each day’
I have heard this kind of stuffs from almost every girl I meet right after a breakup.Trying hard to come out of the relationship and then end up crying badly at nights and finding yourself in a mess of thoughts.I had a friend who killed herself for her lost love.Seriously dude!Why dont you just forget your past?Why do you still stuckup on people who doesn’t need you in their life?You should learn to moveon.Its your life and if you are spoiling it for someone who dont deserve to be in your life,then there’s no point in living a life like this.Wear a smile and go for a long joirney.Instead of wasting your time for those jerks who simply put you aside like a trash,show them who you really are.Pack your bags,go to random places or spend some time with your parents.Live your life for your parents who have given you so much and Just totallyyyy forget the past.pick up only few beautiful memories from the past and bury the other memories deep down your heart.Just dont take it anymore.Move on and at somepoint of time,you will meet your soulmate,who will give you a lot to remember and smile.Live in present and your future will be beautiful.
And you,huh you itself..why dont you just put a smile on your face now and say goodbye to your so called love life and past?
At times I think like this,’why are we living in this World?’wheather to please others or to satisfy ourselves!My answer is always to satisfy ourselves,but will endup doing everything to please others.
Being a girl,i have always faced lots of problems.Be it from my own family or from other people.There is always been a set of belief in homosapiens,that a girl should always be in the kitchen,she should take care of others,take care of households and take care of herself.Her main duty is to see wheather others are satisfied by the way she is.It is seen from the ancient period itself,where the men goes for hunting and women remains there to cook and serve.Its high time to make a change in this scenario.I find this kind of attitude and thought more in the Indian society.women always try to satisfy herself but end up satisfying others. I thought a change will happen when a women go for job.But it happened the other way around.She is suppossed to do all the household work and then go fo job.After getting back from job,she should start doing housework again,feed the children,takecare of husband,serving him dinner..each and everything she has to do.What will happen if the husband serve food for one day,what will happen if he takescare of the children,why cant he help her out ?Iam not telling to help her completely but he can give a helping hand.thats where you can call yourself a man with pride.Society might tell,’look at him,being a man and doing household work,sooo bad’…but trust me,society will keep telling like this only.They just need something to say.When they get another topic,there focus on you will change.So dont worry about the people around you.Its you who should built a happy family,not the society.Be bold enough to make a change in this custom of seeing women as mere housemaids.Lets get together and lend a helping hand to those women at our home.You start at home,slowly the society will change.
Here’s a big salute to all the women out there who is continously working to see a smile in others face.